Are you trying to be someone you’re not?
How’s that working for you?
As women, we’re told our entire lives who and what we *should* be
“Sugar and spice and everything nice”
Right?
We’re supposed to be soft spoken, and always polite and pretty and perfect…
Well I call bullshit on that!
Sometimes that’s not the way we are
And for some of us that’s not the way we’re ever going to be
So why are you trying so hard to fit into a mold you’re not made for??
What’s your biggest fear revolving around this?
Are you afraid of rejection?
Are you worried people will judge you?
Are you afraid of being raw and vulnerable?
The people in your life: clients, friends, colleagues
The energy they bring
It’s a direct reflection of you
So if your energy is unauthentic
If you’re constantly trying to force yourself into this box you don’t fit in
That reflection is going to be all wrong
How exhausting is it to pretend all the time???
To always wear this mask
How amazing would it be to just be able to relax
to just be ourselves
So what if you don’t like wearing makeup and getting all dressed up just to do a Facebook live
Show up how you want!!
The people that care are not your people
If they don’t sign up for your services, GOOD!
So what if you’re a level 4 out of 10 energy on a good day
Show up at that level 4 and speak to all those other level 4’s out there
Those are your people!
Do you love to laugh and joke around a lot?
YOU DO YOU!
When you’re showing up authentically
You’ll attract those that are on your level!
Why wouldn’t you want to surround yourself with people who value YOU??
If you LOVE doing your hair and makeup
And that makes you feel good…
You do that!
If you love dropping F-bombs and saying outlandish shit!
DO IT!!!
If you’re shy and soft spoken and you don’t feel good being “in-your-face”
YOU BE YOURSELF!
Don’t try to be anything you’re not!
Only then will you begin attracting the people into your life and into your business that serve your higher purpose.
Only then will you start building those relationships that raise you higher rather than pull you down
Only then will you start connecting with your followers on a more intimate level
You are the only you there is and that’s what makes you special